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Bulling

First I would like to apologizes why I have not posted in such a while I have been caught up in school because it is coming to the end of the year all of these exams and everything but I hope it wont happen again.


I was looking through my most viewed page the other day and I found out it was bulling, in a way I would hope it would be another topic because no one likes to think about bulling but many people deal with it every day it is a horrible topic to talk about because it happens to so many people.

Sometime in your life you have probably met someone or will meet someone who won't be kind to you will put you down and make you feel worthless but the word bulling is where it happens more than ones.

I have been bullied for all different reasons all through my life, I hate bullying I hate how it makes you feel about yourself from personal experience I know what you are going through. The most important thing you can do is tell someone I know people go on and on about telling someone but it is the best thing you can do having someone you can talk to someone who can help you, even if it is your teacher your parents anyone they can help you they will help you get back to normal not constantly worrying if this bully is after you all the time.

Sometimes these bully's have nothing better to sometimes they might have problems at home and they take you anger out on you I know it is not right but they might be under a lot of stress so they take it out on you I know it is not an excuse but that may be the reason ask them why they are doing this to you because you have probably done nothing wrong.

Every time they do or say something to you write it down so you can gather enough evidence against them.

You don't need to deal with this on your own there is people out there who want to help, who can help but you have to reach out and ask them no one will know unless you tell and get advice in how to take action against them.

All of this information I found on all right to go them  http://www.ditchthelabel.org/annual-bullying-survey-2015/

    50% of young people have bullied another person, 30% of which do it at least once a week.
    69% of young people have witnessed somebody else being bullied, 43% of which see it at least once a week.
    43% of young people have been bullied, 44% of which are bullied at least once a week.
    Appearance is cited as the number 1 aggressor of bullying, with 51% saying they were bullied because of attitudes towards how they look.
    26% said their weight was targeted, 21% body shape, 18% clothing, 14% facial features, 9% glasses and 8% hair colour.
    23% a females with ginger hair cited their hair colour as the bullying aggressor.
    Overall, 47% of young people want to change their appearance. 48% want teeth whitening, 17% breast implants, 6% liposuction and 5% botox.
    74% of those who have been bullied, have, at some point been physically attacked. 17% have been sexually assaulted. 62% have been cyber bullied.
    As a result of bullying, 29% self harmed, 27% skipped class, 14% developed an eating disorder and 12% ran away from home.
    Highest risk to bullying were the following groups: all types of disability, and low income backgrounds.
    40% of respondents reported being bullied for personal appearance 36% reported being bullied for body shape, size and weight.
    Of those who were bullied, 98% were bullied by another student, 17% from a sibling, 13% from a teacher and 8% from their parents/guardians.
    55% reporting bullying. 92% to a teacher, 49% were satisfied. 86% to a family member, 82% were satisfied. 69% to a friend, 72% were satisfied.
    45% did not report bullying. 32% of which felt it would not be taken seriously, 32% were too embarrassed and 26% were scared of it getting worse.
    Those who have bullied were more likely to be in trouble with the Police (36%) vs. Witnesses to bullying (23%) and those who have been bullied (22%).



This is so wrong people many people deal with bullying each and every day bullies make there life hell. Wondering each day what they will do or say to you next. It makes your life a constant worry, if you are feeling as if cant cope with it anymore you need to talk to someone tell them what you are going through.

I hope this might help you in some way you might of heard this before but it is really the best thing you can do is to tell someone.

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